New Things I Almost MissedI am always looking at Grace to see what new things she can do, but there were some things I haven't noticed, or that I have noticed but haven't documented! I am trying to remember to document everything on here, since I will be publishing her blog every two years and giving it to her for a gift :) Anyways, on to the new things!
Today I saw Grace pulling her sock off, and usually I tell her no, and put it back on without thinking that it could be a teaching moment. (I guess it wasn't today since it's 12:34 am...so Friday) But this time, when she took the one sock off, I said, "Give it to me please Grace." And she reached out for me to take it, but was about 3 feet away. So I held my hand out and said it again, "give it to me please. The sock. Put it in Mommy's hand." And she crawled over and handed it to me, and actually released it from her hand rather than pulling it back to her chest. Ok, huge step. So I decided to take it a step further. Get ready for this guys!! I said, "Grace, please give me your other sock. **Pointing to her foot with the sock still on it** Grace. That sock...S-O-C-K. Sssssoooocccckkkk. Please give me the sock. In my hand." And what did she do? She pulled it off...and HANDED IT TO ME!!! YES!!! I WAS SO HAPPY!! This is just amazing!!! And she even had issues pulling it off, so I thought she would give up, but she didn't! Great job girly.
Second thing. She's been great at helping get dressed. She will push her hands through arm holes and has done that for quite a few months...since at least 12 months old if not earlier. And she's also pushed her legs through the pant legs. But just recently, we've been working on pushing her arms through sleeves while holding something. She likes to chew on her toothbrush while getting dressed, and usually, I put the hand in the sleeve that's not holding the brush, then I physically transfer the brush from one hand to the other and put the other arm in that WAS holding the toothbrush. And I've had to do that for a couple months. And of course, as always, I was talking my way through it..."Grace put your left arm in...good girl. Now we have to move your toothbrush. Let go...**peeling her fingers off the brush and transferring it to her left hand***You need to hold it with your LEFT hand now. Now push your RIGHT arm in...Good girl!" So that's usually how it went. Well now? YEAH RIGHT!! I put her empty arm in...well, she does, and then she transfers the brush ON HER OWN, without me even prompting her!! So that's awesome because it's showing the ability to remember an important task, cause and effect because she now knows that she can't push her arm through a sleeve with a toothbrush in her hand, and the ability to swap something from one hand to the other. This is stellar. But that's not it!!
The third thing she can do she's done for about a month now, so it's fairly new. When we are putting socks on, she's usually sitting. And when she sits, she always has her legs bent. She can't sit with her legs straight because her quads and hamstrings are SO tight that it's painful for her. So it's kinda hard for me to put her socks on, so what I do is lift her foot a bit and then put the sock on. And I again talk her through it, all the time..."Ok Grace. We need to put your socks on. Lift up your foot...up...lift up... UP. Now we put your sock on! Good girl. Now the other foot...etc." All throughout her life, we've talked non-stop with her about what we are doing. Even if it's brushing her teeth or walking from one room to the other. So back to the story. So what's she all of a sudden started doing???? Lifting up her foot BY HERSELF!!! She sees me pull the socks out and unfold them and she's all attention on that. I open it up a bit to fit around her foot, and she lifts her foot about 4 inches off the floor so I can put the sock on!!! YES!!! She's learning, and keeping in what she learns!!! **Fist pumping air**!!! But no, no, that's not all!!
A lot of the times when I am changing Grace, I have her stand on the changing table and then I pull her pants down and off, one foot at a time. I would always lift one leg, then pull the pant leg off, then move to the other. Well, gosh, she just had to show me how good she is. I no longer have to lift her legs. Why? Because I pull the pant leg down, and she's ready with her weight shifting, holding my shoulders, and up comes her foot so I can't pull the pant leg off!! I talked her through that one too..."Ok, Grace. Time to take your pants off because...(whatever reason). We have to unbutton it, and then push push push it down, down to the ground!! Then lift ONE leg...ONE LEG...LIFT!!! Good girl. Now I pull the pants OFF. Then the other leg Grace, so SHIFT shift shift your weight, to the other leg. Good, now down down down they go, down to the ground. And off they come!" So now she just does it!! SO SMART!!
Well, that's all we have for now. More to come in the future though, I wouldn't be surprised.
Amanda